Stop Being Yourself

At this point in your life, you may want to consider stopping being your old self. I know people take pride in being themselves but it is a flawed ideology. Sometimes what one needs is to become the direct opposite of oneself. Over the years Cynthia has been looking for someone that will 'love' her the way she's but little did she know that finding that person may be the worst thing that will ever happen to her.

Many people view their lifestyle as something that it's an inherent part of them. But they are not, we can change who we're and modify all that we have become. Even if we're born with a strong propensity to do certain wrongs, we should not accept it as final. That too can be changed. It's annoying how the world wants those born blind to see and still demand that those acclaimed to be born gay be left alone. It doesn't make sense how we build theories just to avoid making necessary changes that will make us better and increase our chances of living a fulfilled life.

Think about it! Would you rather make changes in your life to become a better person or be allowed to continue being 'who you are'. If you are careful not to be in a company that demands you change, I think you should reconsider that approach this year. It's a huge blessing to be in a relationship, church, employment, or school that demands rightly that we make necessary changes that will propel us to become better and to make meaningful contributions to society.

My wife used to claim that she's not a morning person and tries to avoid anything that will require that she wake up very early. Today, she has seen reasons to wake up early and she's doing pretty well at it. You are not all that your environment has made you. They can be changed. YOU CAN CHANGE. Think about all that you are today that has been preventing you from reaching your goals and make effort to change such behaviors this year. Don't avoid books, churches, messages, friendship, movies, or anything that makes such a demand for positive change in your life. Embrace them and make up your mind to work on yourself this year. Make up your mind to become better and be deliberate about it.

If you're stupid, finding another stupid person that will love your stupidity is not the best for you. Changing or finding someone that will love you enough to demand change is far better.
#happyNewYear